Palo Alto / Stanford Hospital
Located right on campus, this impressive structure1 provided a classy venue for our Rick’s entry into the world. After getting home from Seminary, I had to guide the almost-new mother firmly into Brigitte, lest she jump on her bike for the trip from Escondido Village. I’m glad she felt so good: many report the opposite experience. But there’s a limit. And we learned early on that she’s both blessed and in danger of being ambushed by fast2 and relatively easy labor and delivery.
Dr. Donald Creevy, Valerie’s obstetrician3 and a young man with modern ideas about childbirth, had prepared us for a fully collaborative and participatory experience4 on the big day. So we were startled when a very businesslike nurse bustled into the delivery room at the worst possible moment and declared, “This child cannot be born! Mr Anderson did not complete this form!” Dr Creevy responded quickly and physically, and the nurse found herself on the other side of the door. Another good thing: in my nervous state, I might have decked her.
It hadn’t been clear, to me at least, how far ahead of normal practices and expectations Dr. Creevy was operating. By the time5 we next visited a delivery room, the father’s participation in parturition had become very much standard procedure.
1I’d have included a nice picture of an architect’s model of the place, borrowed from a Stanford website, where (http://elane.stanford.edu/wilson/html/photoalbum/index.html#id=buildings&num=16) you can see it, if you care to. But it turns out they charge $50 for the privilege of reproducing it. Within their rights, of course. Guess I’m still operating below Palo Alto’s range of acceptable consumption, but their attractive image isn’t worth that to me, just now. Sorry I didn’t snap a slide or even a Polaroid, while I had the chance.
2The doctors use the term, “precipitous.”
3Must include him among the rivals toward whom I’ve directed some muted feelings of jealousy. John Wayne and Perry Como also come to mind; both, of course, now safely deceased; Creevy, however, was last sighted still in OB/GYN practice in Portola Valley. The next August, as we crossed the California state line on our way back to civilization, I detected a tear in Valerie’s eye, as she looked back. Said I, “It’s OK, dear: we’ll visit your native state again, some day.” Her response: “Doctor Creeeeeevy!” I’m told such attachments may not be uncommon, especially among young primips. Still: humpff!
4Within the limits of our diverse capacities…        51970, in Cambridge, with our Chris.
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